But I got tired of that, and I made it clear to him that I will stay in with him as often as he wants, put him to bed, make food with him or for him, clean, etc. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract. It has already taken him us 3 years since he got out of school and finally just matched this year. You will buy expensive disability insurance, malpractice insurance, and life insurance to provide a snippet of comfort for the great, unknowable future. Did U have sex with her yet. Now, they are limited to only 80 hours per week. On top of their day job, they also have to read volumes upon volumes of medical journals to keep up with their profession. How am I certain.
Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. I'm not going to hit the town with single ladies and couples find it awkward just inviting you over.
I had thought after so many years I would find a way to deal with the resentment. Those will make her think. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. I have been pretty much a single mother most of that time. My doctor husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years.
I really do have strong feelings for him and want to make this work… but I'm beginning to feel like I have no identity of my own anymore and I will forever just be, "the doctor's wife. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. Are you ok with waiting for that.